Love and Hip Hop

OK, OK, I don’t do reality television! Until I saw what rapper Jim Jones girlfriend Chrissy look like. She is a beautiful average height, curvy, brown skin woman. Total not what I expected for this rappers girlfriend look like. The industry bombard us with visuals of extremely fair skin, Hispanic or women who our not of color at all. So yes I was floored by her and it peak my interest to sit and watch a bit of Love and Hip Hop on Vh1 which is described as a docu-soap series. OK who doesn’t love a soap trust this is not Dynasty. (Sidebar I think I just showed my age)

People that I am interested in on the show Jim Jones girlfriend and mother ooh boy is the mother interesting. Can we say mom it is time to let the apron strings go and let him be a grown man. Honestly I have no idea if I will continue watching the show but I am enthralled by the relationship of Chrissy and Jim Jones. They have kind of broken the image of what I thought a man in the Hip Hop industry is looking for. I forget that they are human and looking for love like the rest of us.

In a relationship love, acceptance, a partner who not only has your back and best interest at heart which is why Jim Jones explained Chrissy in his life. That is what we all looking for it takes more then that first spark of attraction to keep a relationship going. Accept the person for who they are we can not change adults it’s hard to change habits.  People have to be able to stand on there own mental, spiritual, and financial. When entering a relationship you have to be able to stand alone and as a partnership so that you can grow and better the partnership. We need a person to uplift us not drag us down because as we know we can do badly by our own self, yes we can. Yes we sure need to be in love and attracted to that person sexual because if we our not what is the point!

Will I watch more of Love and Hip Hop not sure I think my soap opera days our over. To much drama for me I can live without but if I happen to fall into accidentally like last night. I sure will sit and watch! I would love to see if Chrissy and Jim end up together as a nice family with Mama Jones in the mix. Know that is good drama ooh boy is it. At heart I am a romantic so I hope them luck.