When did someone’s sexuality become news worthy? Yesterday it seems when Don Lemon the 45 year old, CNN anchor came out to say that he was a gay man and was born that way. Perhaps he felt the need to share this fact because he has a memoir coming out called Transparent coming out this year sharing his life as a black man. Honestly he sexuality is none of my business as long as he continues to give me my mid day news fix is all that matters. Lemons says he is coming out at this time because “I think if you’re going to be in the business of news, and telling people the truth, of trying to shed light in dark places, then you’ve got to be honest. You’ve got to have the same rules for yourself as you do for everyone else. (Times 5/16/11)"
What I think would be more news worth would be if he did a segment on the fact that he was sexual abused as a child. A subject that is never discussed in the Black community to me would be a subject that merits discussion. That adults prey on young children not just the girls but boys also. The fact that sexual abuse of a child stays with them through out life that yes not all are strong enough to heal themselves. I think it would help to discuss this subject how he has over come his sexual abuse as a child to grow up to be a black male anchor on CNN to me more news worth then his sexual preference. His memoir thought sounds like it maybe interesting if he writes it honestly while he discusses his life growing up without a father, his sexual abuse as a child and his live as a gay man.
In the end we will never know if it was these two major factors in his life that lead him to being a gay man. He comes from a background that lots of young black men are living and men have lived. Parents need to look into how we do effect are children be more aware of young people, feelings, behavior for things that maybe going wrong within their lives. I believe that people are born with a sexual preference or two. Some fall in love with the person and it is not the fact that they are male, female or transgender they just love that person.
Don Lemon is entitled to love and who he loves is his business not news worthy. If I can find his book at a good price off of Amazon I will purchase it as a read. I feel he maybe a role model for young men who are looking to break into to news media. Some might argue why does a role model have to be a gay black man? He is a man who has made a career for himself in an industry were we do not see to much color. Don Lemon has not let past struggles, pains, fears hold him back to accomplish his goal. He also understands that they maybe backlash against him coming out as a black man.
“It’s quite different for an African-American male,” he said. “It’s about the worst thing you can be in black culture. You’re taught you have to be a man; you have to be masculine. In the black community they think you can pray the gay away.”
“You’re afraid that black women will say the same things they do about how black men should be dating black women," he went on. “I guess this makes me a double minority now.”
No one should have to live in that manner afraid to be who they truly are. Just to make others happy! No happiness is the responsibility of the individual life goes by so fast. Don Lemon needs to live and enjoy his life regardless of how others may feel on sexuality. To me he is the same anchor person he was before he came out the closet, well spoken, attractive black man. Who he is in a relationship should not change how he is portrayed as a black man anchoring on CNN mid day.
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