Drag = Self Confidence

How sexy is a person who oozy’s self-confidence? Extremely sexy! Per the counseling center at the University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign “self-confidence is an attitude which allows individuals to have positive yet realistic views of themselves and their situation. Key point in this whole definition is a positive view of self. It tool starts with the individual and not what others think of us. As long as we like what we see when we look at ourselves then who cares what others think. As individuals we should have the belief in ourselves and abilities to accomplish goals that we have set.

Self-confidence built it initiates from our parent’s attitudes to how children grow up feeling about themselves. The acceptance that we receive from our parents help to build up how we feel about ourselves and how we see ourselves. Peers and friends also help us to define how we see ourselves along with society. In the end it is how we define ourselves that is most important to help us build our self-confidence along with accomplishing goals that we have set. We are given the tools and it is up to us to create what we will with it so easy to say then accomplish.

In the beautiful words of RuPaul “If you don’t love yourself how, the hell you gonna love someone else?” So much truth in that statement you have to love yourself first have confidence in whom you our and what you can accomplish. In search of some confidence take a look at a female impersonator it takes serious confidence to put on heels, make up and just do the damn thing. To do what makes you happy, use creativity, step out the box and what society dictates to be yourself. An excellent example of self-confidence know who you our, love who you our, know your talents, and put them to the best use possible.

The article from University of Illinois at Urbana-Champaign as individuals we are our worst enemy’s by not believing in ourselves. All the little things that I do myself by latching on the bad or getting caught up on my looks. Looking at the positive and reach out and grab what I want from life not just except what life has given me. It’s my job to emphasize my strengths, take risk, and evaluate myself along with constantly giving myself pep talks. Self-confidence is what makes a person shine and defiantly is a sexy quality so love your self first regardless.

Reference

(2008), Self-Confidence. Counseling Center, Retrieved February 2, 2010 http://www.counselingcenter.illinois.edu/?page_id=191