My girlfriend celebrated her Birthday this weekend in a style that so fitted her personality and lifestyle. In her words “she is seventeen again” as she went to the Legends of Rap concert. Front row, danced up a storm while rapping along with some of her favorite
rappers growing up. I live through her and she doesn’t even know it. She can travel the way that she likes, have dinner with friends at the drop of a dime, hang out on the weekends, and just get up and go at easy importantly loving every minute of her life.
I would not give up my girls for anything in this world. They have help to make me a better person, work harder, and roll with the punches. In life we can not think in the past and get caught up in what could have, should have the past can not be changed perhaps we can learn from it. From my girlfriend I have learned to enjoy life take the time to do things for yourself as an individual. Take the time to just make you happy.
Which will have to start with me to a movie of my choice sitting alone in the theater and just enjoying a movie with out complaints, bathroom breaks, or needing a snack. I think we all deserve time for our self to enjoy things that make us happy. Their should be no guilt for pleasing yourself its OK to do nice things for yourself as you do for others. It’s the hardest thing for me to do pamper myself. Guilty consumes me because I start to think of all the things that I can do for my children if I purchase something for myself. I need to start putting my happiness first also so I have no regrets later in life.
Thank you to one of oldest dearest friend who always brings a smile to my face and has me laugh out loud. I appreciate your stories, especially the play by plays of great concerts. As I live vivaciously through the great experiences. It is time for me to step out and enjoy life more then I have.
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