It hit me like a brick last night while having a conversation with my partner that in a long time I am happy. You know really happiness just enjoying life and not trying to let little things in life take that happiness away. It just silently crept up on me that I am no longer leaving my happiness to someone else. I have been doing this for a very long time and it hit me that it is to much pressure for someone that you are involved with. This honestly can lead to some tense issues within the relationship anger and hostility.
You have to make yourself happy, understand what you want, who you want to be and what in life makes you happy. It is too much and to important to leave your happiness on someone else. I have also learned that if as an individual you are not happy there is nothing that anyone can do to make you happy. It is so easy to say that we must love are selves and do things to make us happy. Nurture our selves as individuals, truly get to know who we are and find that love with in to find happiness. It is not that happy sometimes we get into ruts, maybe even fear improving on us and just straight fearful of failure. Life is too short to let fear hold us back from finding happiness from within.
I no longer put the pressure of my happiness on someone else. It’s my life and I want to do things that I enjoy by doing things for me. I would like a health relationships with those in my life I want to find that balance between making me happy and those around me. It starts with me first because in the end if I am not happy no one else will be either. I can not be someone else’s savior I can hopefully be part of my saving. It was a very important brick that hit me called Happiness!!!
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